I can live with that, I just got this phone and dont want to mess it up by trying to skin it, since I hear that can seriously damage the phone if you mess it up. I can live with the stock skin, but I just want to be able to transfer my vids and music so I guess I can be happy with just that. Thank you for your help s5vi. I'll keep looking though, incase I do ever get frisky and decide to mod it more

Edit: I was wondering, the one thing it doesnt let me do over the bluetooth is add songs to my ringers, I can in p2k but not through the the file exchange. If there is no way to do that through the blue tooth I can settle to do my work around to just add or delete ringtones. Also when I get y mem card in will I be able to access it through my bluetooth connection?